Friday Finds 9.4.15

by LeeAnne on September 4, 2015


I stopped doing Friday Finds in 2011, when I joined Pinterest. The site makes it easy to save and share the things I find online all in one place, but I kind of miss the “editorial” aspect of sharing here. While I will continue to pin, Friday Finds will return on a biweekly basis—with a couple changes: Less photos (so much cropping and uploading) and much less wedding coverage. I’ve purged nearly all wedding-related blogs from my RSS feed, which is a good thing. I think. I did edit a wedding publication a few months ago and got a little wistful about some trends I’d missed, like naked cakes.

1. BAY AREA LOVE: First up, this random but awesome wallpaper (above) featuring illustrations of notable Bay Area residents and locations, from chef Alice Waters and rapper E-40 to the cranes at the Port of Oakland and Fairyland’s spouting whale. Designed by Jorma Taccone, of The Lonely Island, and Matt Ritchie, you can purchase it on Flavor Paper ($125 per roll). [Via Sunset]

2. WANDERLUST: I’d love to explore the incredible snow tunnels in Scotland. This natural phenomenon occurs when the snow begins to melt and water flows underneath, creating a tunnel of air. As the snow continues to melt, the tunnels expand, sometimes becoming large enough for people to walk through. [Via Daily Mail]

3. HOME SWEET HOME: When I spotted some concrete tea and coffee cup planters in my RSS feed, I immediately followed the link and bought two. Each is the perfect size for one small succulent, and they look adorable on my counter. I might need more. [Via Cathy Zielske]

4. THE LOL FILE: “Why You Hate Google’s New Logo.” While logo updates aren’t that big a deal (I mean, there could be some negative effects, but it’s not the end of the world), I am not a fan of the new sans serif Google. This article pretty much sums up all the feels.

Happy Friday!

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Mommy and Denali (No. 1)

by LeeAnne on July 11, 2015

Even though I’m still catching up on my Dear Denali letters (I’m going to slip them into the archives, so check back later if you want to read them), it’s time to move on to a new way to document this second year. I have loved seeing Elise Blaha Cripe’s “E&e” series, so I’m going to steal the idea. Thanks, Elisa! ;) Each month, I’ll post three photo pairs that show what Denali and her mommy are up to. I hope you’ll enjoy it!

Mommy: The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up (and decluttering along the way) and the daily devotional Savor. Denali: Board books First 100 Words and The Very Hungry Caterpillar. Right now, she’s all about bringing her books to me to read throughout the day. If I’m busy and say “Not right now,” she drops to the floor in tears. So we’ll be working on that…

Mommy: Pretzel Crisps in garlic parmesan or honey mustard and onion. Mmm. Denali: Gerber Graduates Puffs in banana or peach.

Mommy: The new post–The Civil Wars solo album from Joy Williams, Venus. It’s pretty great, with the occasional vibe of Kate Bush or Lamb. “Until the Levee” is my favorite track. Denali: Our current Music Together repertoire: Summer Songs 1. She loves these classes, and having the CD in my car is a game changer. I can press play to calm any fussiness. Or play at any time to enjoy her enthusiastic clapping, slapping her knees, and “singing” along. The girl has music in her bones.

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Geeking Out

by LeeAnne on April 8, 2015


What I’ve been working on lately…

The Great East Bay Geek Guide
My friend and former co-worker, Pete Crooks, and I bounced around the idea for this story for a couple years. And when I read in an Entertainment Weekly blog that David Peterson—who created the full Dothraki and High Valyrian language for the Game of Thrones TV show—was a UC Berkeley grad, we put it on the schedule for Diablo‘s April issue. (I swear, the best tips are happenstance.) The nine-page Great East Bay Geek Guide features profiles of the aforementioned David Peterson, Will Wright (creator of The Sims and Spore), Phil Tippet (special effects guru for Jurrasic World and original Star Wars films), and Rebecca Romijn (X-Men‘s Mystique); answers some burning questions (Star Wars’ AT-ATs inspired by the Port of Oakland? Connection between Mount Diablo and the Diablo videogame?); and includes our favorite geeky East Bay shops, museums, and gatherings. It was a lot of fun to plan, and I hope you’ll enjoy reading it. Here is the web version, and if you want to see how it looked in print, here is the digital version.

I interviewed Will Wright at his office in Berkeley. We talked a bit about drones, which I didn’t include in the story. He has one that he likes to fly from his home in the Oakland hills and was practically giddy describing how high it can go and how great the image quality is. He showed me some of the footage on his phone, and as the drone is landing, I could see a giant heart with “A+W” inside written on his roof. (His wife’s name is Anya.) How cute is that? My interview with David Peterson was over the phone, and he was so much fun to chat with. Even though he now lives in Southern California, he considers his time in Berkeley to be crucial in his career journey: It’s where he first took a linguistics class and learned about language creation. He had many stories about his time in the East Bay, but I particularly enjoyed learning that his favorite college stress-reliever was taking a bus into San Francisco and walking to Ghirardelli Square for ice cream. Mmm… ice cream. I plan to have a bowl in front of me when Game of Thrones returns on April 12.

By the Numbers: Bells and Bones
Also in the April issue of Diablo, I pulled together some fun statistics about UC Berkeley’s famous clock and bell tower. It’s turning 100 this year. I walked by the Campanile a dozen times during a two-week temp job, helping one department prepare for Cal Day circa 2004, but I didn’t realize until researching this story that it’s open daily for tours. That is now on the to-do list. If you want to read my story, here is the web version.

I continue to do some freelance fact-checking and proofreading for United Airlines’ first-class publication. The April cover story is a profile of January Jones, of Mad Men fame, who is now starring in The Last Man On Earth. Two random thoughts: One, I’ve been watching The Last Man on Earth, and I think Will Forte’s character is the most unlikeable person on television. Granted, I don’t watch much television, but typically even bad guys are more likeable than Phil Miller. (Also, Will Forte is East Bay!) Two, my younger self harbored a bit of jealousy toward January Jones years before she was famous. She dated my celebrity crush, Josh Groban. (!!!) Anyway, you can read the digital editions of Rhapsody magazine here.

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Spring 2015 Mix Tape

by LeeAnne on March 31, 2015

MixTapeMy mix tapes are back! Not only here on the blog, but also among my iTunes playlists. Basically, every song I purchased in 2014 was thrown into one big playlist, and it was awful, just awful. I much prefer to keep a seasonal organization, like a musical snapshot of my life at the time. Enjoy it, move on, and then reminisce later.

As always, I’m not the world’s hippest music fan. I’m just a music fan. The following are the songs currently in heavy rotation on my computer and in my car (when I’m not listening to Denali’s Music Together CD, lol…), whether new, new-to-me, or old favorites that I’ve come back to for one reason or another. I often burn a copy onto CD for my sister, and occasionally other friends, so I eventually spend some time arranging them into what I think is a nice progression.

This spring, I’m excited about a few new releases from artists including Mumford & Sons, Of Monsters and Men, and Joy Williams (formerly of The Civil Wars). And I’m a sucker for a good, fun beat, and Bruno Mars and Pharrell Williams deliver—again. Among the older tracks, can I just say I am obsessed with Sleeping At Last. Such beautiful compositions, and lyrics that really resonate. I had the whole EP in my 2014 playlist, but I’m putting my favorite track here. Enjoy!

1. “Uptown Funk” – Mark Ronson feat. Bruno Mars (iTunes)
2. “Come Get It Bae” – Pharrell Williams (iTunes)
3. “Dangerous” – David Guetta feat. Sam Martin (iTunes)
4. “Reflections” – MisterWives (iTunes)
5. “Shut Up and Dance” – Walk the Moon (iTunes)
6. “Geronimo” – Sheppard (iTunes)
7. “Believe” – Mumford & Sons (iTunes)
8. “Crystals” – Of Monsters and Men (iTunes)
9. “Woman (Oh Mama)” – Joy Williams (iTunes)
10. “U + I” – Stacey Marcus & Tim Myers (iTunes)
11. “Breakfast With Chopin” – Elizaveta (iTunes)
12. “Dollhouse” – Melanie Martinez (iTunes)
13. “Yellow Flicker Beat” – Lorde (iTunes)
14. “Work Song” – Hozier (iTunes)
15. “In the Embers” – Sleeping At Last (iTunes)
16. “Train Song” – Benjamin Gibbard & Feist (iTunes)
17. “Mess is Mine” – Vance Joy (iTunes)
18. “When We Were Young” – Lucy Schwartz (iTunes)
19. “How It Ends” – DeVotchKa (iTunes)

To check out past mix tapes, click here: Winter 2013Autumn 2012Summer 2012, Spring 2012, and Winter 2012.

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Hello, Spring

by LeeAnne on March 20, 2015


Originally, the plan was to do these “currents” lists monthly. Hahahahaha. I think I’ve done three in two years. So, here’s the beginning of my seasonal/quarterly currents.


Wearing: Jeans, a sheer paisley-print shirt over a silky tank, and no shoes. It’s basically what I was wearing in my last currents, just a different print on the shirt. LOL. I really, really need to go shopping…

Drinking: A grande java chip frappucino from Starbucks. Specifically, the drive-through Starbucks in the next city over because I didn’t want to take my nine-month-old out of her carseat again. I wish there was a drive-through for everything.

Watching: I finally finished Parenthood. I put it off for weeks, telling people that if I didn’t play the last episode, then it wouldn’t end! Well, that distant sobbing you heard a couple weeks ago… that was me, watching the finale. Also, Paul and I are rewatching every episode of Game of Thrones in preparation for season five. So! Excited!

Listening: The first single, “Crystals,” from the new Of Monsters and Men album is out. I just love them. Such a cool, atmospheric sound.

Reading: Recently, I’ve enjoyed the humorous “Kids These Days” from San Francisco magazine, about pint-sized food snobbery. And at a recent MOPS meeting, this two-year-old blog, “One Little Word That Radically Changed My Prayers” was inspiring. I’ve often thought about how borderline petty and narcissistic prayer can be, and this changes the game.

Playing: King of Tokyo. My family is obsessed with board games, and this is a new favorite. The gameplay is quick to learn (unlike much of what we’ve been known to play, lol), the game board is small (so you can totally play it with five people jammed around a tiny cocktail-size table at Barnes & Noble, as we have), and it’s fun. Props to our friend Staphon for introducing us to his family’s tradition of listing winners inside each game’s box lid. We do this now, along with the date and any details specific to the win, such as the final score, the “hero” played, or the number of opponents.

Wondering: What is up with the bone broth craze? Isn’t it just stock? Like, when I made jambalaya on Mardi Gras, I made stock from the rotisserie chicken carcass and vegetable trimmings. And then I cooked with it. It was yum; I could have just swigged a cup of it if I wanted. I mean, whole animal cooking is about as old-fashioned as it gets. It’s funny to me how old traditions and hobbies become trendy and “new” again.

Anticipating: Berkeley Rep announced its upcoming season, and on the schedule is a world-premiere stage musical adaptation of Amelie. Can’t wait!

Planning: Denali’s first birthday. I’ve already purchased a dress and some decorations, and I’ve started designing the invitation. It’s more than two months away. I am a crazy person. But parties!

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Fairyland Rhapsody

by LeeAnne on March 7, 2015


I’d like to be better at sharing my freelance work on the blog in 2015. Not only so you can read it, if you’re interested, but also to share some fun behind-the-scenes stuff from interviews, tours, and projects that wouldn’t otherwise see the light of day. Here’s what I worked on in the first quarter of 2015…

Rhapsody Magazine
Beginning with the January issue, I have been doing some freelance editing for United Airlines’ first-class magazine, Rhapsody. I fact-check 3–4 articles and proofread all the editorial pages each issue. It’s a great publication for anyone interested in luxury lifestyle and travel, with stories on international destinations, high fashion, fine watches, and celebrity profiles. Plus, I’m always learning something new.  (I often joke that a couple years of fact-checking can practically replace a college degree.)  For example, in January, I learned that the Everglades are home to 300 species of fish. In February, I learned that Eleanor Roosevelt was likely having an affair with Lorena Hickok, essentially her press secretary; she even moved her into the White House. (And, literally, the next week, there was a reference to this on Glee.) In March, I learned all about the 10-mile-wide radio-telescope antenna array in the middle of Chile’s Atacama desert, which is observing the millimeter and submillimeter section of invisible light.  I’ll be a better Trivial Pursuit player in the near future, lol.  You can read the digital editions of the magazine here.

Odd Jobs: Engineer of Fun
In the March issue of Diablo magazine, I profiled Kevin Cruz for the recurring Odd Jobs column I started a couple years ago. He’s the engineer and ride mechanic for Children’s Fairyland in Oakland, and basically, over the past year, he’s gone all MacGyver on the 65-year-old amusement park, doing things like fabricating lighting parts from pressed pennies. Beyond what I captured in the profile, I liked his humble attitude (“If it’s broken, I go fix it. I’m not anything special”) and his soft spot for animals: He often stops by the petting zoo and can be found entertaining squirrels in his converted-shipping-container office. You can read it here. And if you missed my previous Odd Jobs columns, here they are: the taxidermist at Oakland Museum of California and the organ player for the Oakland Athletics.

The List
My last monthly calendar, “The List,” ran in Diablo‘s March issue. I’ve researched and written this East Bay calendar, off and on, for more than a decade. (There was that brief hiatus early in the recession, when the magazine had to cut pages, and a few other random months when I was too busy or there was a family emergency and had to hand it off.) It went through three redesigns and three names, previously “10 to Do” and “Diablo Datebook.” And for much of that time, I also penned the accompanying weekly events blog, “Top Tickets,” which will run online through the end of March. All of this was hard to step away from. I genuinely enjoyed working on the calendar for several reasons, but mostly because it helped me live a full, fun life in the East Bay. I always knew what was going on, my friends often asked for recommendations, and I attended countless stage musicals, street festivals, and art exhibits, both on press credentials and off. Although I’ll try to keep up, I know I won’t be as connected to the local arts community in the future, and that is too bad. Here is “The List” for January, February, and March.

Diablo Weddings
Lastly, I proofread the first annual Diablo Weddings special issue. I got married in 2008, which seems like not that long ago. It was, however, before the launch of Pinterest. For ideas, I bought bridal magazines and browsed a few wedding blogs, but there wasn’t such a huge fuss over on-trend themes, colors, and ideas. So it was really fun for me to read up on the latest, from “naked” cakes to official hashtags to drone photography. If you or someone you know is getting married in the Bay Area, you’ll want to check it out here. It features real-life wedding inspiration, tips from planners, and lots of unique and local ideas.

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Best Movies of 2014

by LeeAnne on February 22, 2015


Going to the movies has been a favorite pastime of mine for a very long time. It’s partially entertainment, sure, but it’s also art. I see movies to be moved, challenged, and inspired. They take me out of my own little life and get me thinking about the Big Questions in a way no other medium does. Something I heard a lot when I was pregnant was, “Just wait until you have kids…” I found this rather annoying. Beyond the fact that it’s neither supportive nor loving, it is simply not true. Every person has the same amount of time in a day, and we choose how to spend it based on our individual priorities. Is my new child a priority? Of course. But so is my favorite hobby—and I schedule time for it. Some parents watch hours of TV. Others read piles of books. I watch a lot of movies.

Despite the late May arrival of my daughter and the end of my movie-watching life as I knew it, I saw 39 new flicks this year. To make my annual top ten, I keep a running ranked list and insert each title after I see it. At the end of the year (or, more accurately, before the Academy Awards, as so many great films are released late in the year and it takes time to hit them all), I make adjustments based on how strongly a title still resonates.  So, without further adieu…

1. Birdman
What I loved: The one-long-shot cinematography, the feverish pace, the freestyle drumming score, the blending of fantasy and reality, the deliciously whacky performances, and the winky-wink nod to Michael Keaton’s own acting career.

2. The Grand Budapest Hotel
What I loved: Wes Anderson’s films are like moving paintings, specifically dusty retro paintings you might find in your grandmother’s attic. In addition to the stunning sets and costumes, this crime caper is fast and funny and fabulous.

3. Whiplash
What I loved: This one is intense, and I wanted to join in smacking Miles Teller over the head a few times, hehe. But I really respected that it doesn’t take a moral/ethical stance on the pursuit of perfection. Artists’ internal and external motivations come in many forms—and greatness often rises from darkness.

4. The Theory of Everything / The Imitation Game
What I loved: So, I’m probably cheating a bit here, but these are practically the same movie. Biopic on a great (but awkward) mind, killer British cast, beautiful cinematography… I’m giving the edge to Theory because Eddie Redmayne and Felicity Jones were so, so good.

5. Edge of Tomorrow
What I loved: Action movies don’t often rank this high for me, but this Groundhog Day–esque concept was really fun and interesting, and the puzzle challenged me til the very end, which was very satisfying. Plus, who knew Emily Blunt could take on such a tough role?

6. Wild
What I loved: I read this book about a year ago, and I struggled with it. I just didn’t really care for the protagonist—and it’s a memoir! Seeing the movie, I was delighted by what Reese Witherspoon brought to the character. I felt empathy toward her and believed in the transformative power of her journey.

7. Guardians of the Galaxy
What I loved: The trailers for this movie were laughably bad. But I kept hearing good things and took a chance. So glad I did. I thought Guardians had the perfect balance of action, drama, and comedy. It didn’t take itself too seriously. And it was just a lot of fun.

8. Selma
What I loved: This movie was so, so powerful, as you’d hope a biopic on MLK would be. Credit, I think, goes to the supertight focus on this one event in the movement and the authentic performances. Personally, I think it’s insane that David Oyelowo isn’t up for a best actor Oscar.

9. American Sniper
What I loved: My husband points out that this is a rare war movie without politics. And it’s true: It’s the (true) story of one warrior, from childhood through four tours in Iraq to (spoiler alert, I suppose) his tragic and untimely death. It’s gritty and intense. I especially loved some of the small moments, like when Chris Kyle has to put down his gun and rub his shoulder after hours laying in a hideout.

10. Chef
What I loved: This was easily the most fun I had in the theater this year. The movie doesn’t break any new ground, but it’s a delightful father-son story with larger-than-life characters, a fun soundtrack, and lots of delectable food shots. The grilled-cheese making scene is whoa. Need that. Now.

Honorable mentions: Boyhood (for it’s Big Idea, even if it feels like a gimmick in light of zero plot), A Most Wanted Man (for a thrilling ride; also RIP Phillip Seymour Hoffman), Big Eyes (for Christoph Waltz in those courtroom scenes), The Skeleton Twins (for the lip-sync prowess of Kristen Wiig and Bill Hader), Laggies (for making me nostalgic for high school and slumber parties), Muscle Shoals (for a compelling slice of music history, even if it technically came out at the end of 2013…).

What I wish I hadn’t wasted time on: Jack Ryan: Shadow Recruit (zzzzzzzzz), Magic in the Moonlight (Woody Allen is so hit or miss, and this is a miss), and Snowpiercer (sorry, Entertainment Weekly hype machine, it wasn’t that good).

What I didn’t get around to seeing but wish I had: Calvary, Nightcrawler, and St. Vincent.

Now it’s your turn. What were your favorites? Please share them in the comments!

P.S. – I’ve been making movie-related top 10 and best-0f lists for a while. Here’s where you can find them for 2013, 2012, 2011, 2010, 2009, 2008, 2007, 2006, 2005, 2004, and 2003.  And, I also have a Top Movies of the Decade list, representing 2000 to 2010.

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Dear Denali: Seven Months

by LeeAnne on December 23, 2014


The wave. It’s your new favorite thing. The first time you waved at me, I had just dropped you off at Grandma and Grandpa’s, so I could join your dad for his work holiday party. Grandpa was holding you on the porch. He waved goodbye as I backed out of the driveway—and you did, too! Except it was backward, the palm of your hand facing you, slowly opening and closing. It was so precious; my heart melted. Soon, you started waving at the cats whenever they entered the room. And once, when I gave you your dolly, you held her above yourself with one hand and waved at her with the other. Sometimes, I catch you practicing: You’ll be laying on your back with your hands up in front of your face, opening and closing your fist and turning your wrist.

Another new favorite: music class. Mommy’s friend, Kate, suggested we try a free Music Together class, with Kate and her two-month-old, Clarice. That 45 minutes ended up being the highlight of your life so far. You had a huge smile on your face as the group sat in a circle, singing and clapping to music. We played with drumsticks and egg-shaped shakers. We dance around in a circle. At one point, the teacher dumped out a bin of various instruments. I gave you a small tambourine and a bongo drum, and you were delighted. You happily shook the tambourine in one hand while slapping the drum with the other. You loved watching all the other kids in the class (mostly 9–12 month range). I knew I had to sign you up for the rest of the session. Maybe it was because we were at Music Together earlier in the day, but you got the biggest smile when you heard someone hammering a new display at Crate & Barrel. Maybe you thought it was music?

Lately, you are not a big fan of having anything on your feet. You constantly tug at your socks (one style, which you wear often, stays on) and kick off your shoes almost immediately. When I was trying to take your six-month photos, you’d have one shoe off before I could focus my camera. You also really hate it when the book you’re “reading” closes. Until you figured out how to open them on your own—which took a few days—you’d be happily playing with a book and then start wailing in frustration.

We retired your play mat. I needed to clear out the living room for a Christmas party, and you had nearly outgrown it anyway. These days, you’ll sit in the middle of the living room for a good 45 minutes, often preoccupied with rollie owl or your Taggies blanket. (You are obsessed with tags—on your bib, on your clothes, on your toys. You crinkle them in your hands and suck on them.) Eventually, you’ll get tired of sitting and fall over. Then, you enjoy rolling over to the hard tile and slapping it. Or rolling over to an object and licking it—like the leg of a chair. Or a wastebasket. One day, I could tell you were about to spit up. I kind of dove onto the carpet in front of you and stuck out my hand—and I caught it! Haha. It was impressive and also gross. The things moms do to prevent more carpet cleaning…

Your personality is starting to come into focus, and you’re clearly a playful and social little girl. When you’re excited to see someone, you kick all of your limbs. You do this every time I carry you into the office to say “hi” to Daddy on his telecommuting days. A big smile, and flail, flail, flail! One evening, you made your dad laugh so hard, he spit out his drink. He said to you, “You still have your jacket on,” and you immediately went, “HA-HA!” It was pretty funny. We have our favorite photos of you on a stream that our Apple TV uses as a slideshow screen saver. You often watch it, but lately, you make excited shouts and squeals when the photos change. I don’t know if you realize the photos are of you, or if you think there are a bunch of babies on our TV, hanging out with your family and your toys. And, you’re more aware of and excited about the cats. In fact, I think you know their names. I was saying words to you—Mama, Papa, hi, bottle, Pepper—and when I got to Pepper, your eyes widened and you started looking around the room for our cat, Pepper.

Despite all the fun and silliness, you’re also getting more fussy and drooly lately, and it might be teething related. We’ve started giving you your Binky again at nap times and nighttime, and it seems to be helping. You fall asleep faster and sleep longer with it. We upgraded your hospital Soothies to Super Soothies, which are much thicker and stronger. You like to pull them out and chew on the sides.

You had your first Thanksgiving! You wore a pretty dress and sat at the table in your high chair. Your bib had a turkey on it and said “I’m stuffed!” You had meat for the first time: Grandma bought a jar of turkey and butternut squash baby food. You liked it a lot; you didn’t even make a “first-taste” face. Later in the evening, your second cousins Tyler and Marieke were making you laugh for a good half hour. They’d give you a toy, you’d drop it (purposefully) on the floor, and they’d scramble to get it. As soon as they’d move, you’d bust up laughing. It was ridiculously cute.

Some firsts this month… You tried your first fruit: apples. You did not enjoy them and made the worst face of any new taste—even a gagging sound! Haha. A few spoonfuls later, you started clamping your mouth shut. Your second fruit, prunes, was better, although you stuck out your tongue between bites. Maybe because of the tartness? Veggies are the clear favorite thus far. You sat in your first restaurant high chair, at The Habit, with the Carson clan. You did great! You played with your toys and were content until you got tired. (After I moved you to my lap, you suddenly threw your head down onto my arms, which were resting on the table, and fell asleep! You were slumped over my arms, face down, with your arms splayed out. We cracked up and took a bunch of photos. Silly girl!) I bought you your first battery-operated toy: a set of plastic keys. The clicker plays real recorded sounds, like a car horn, a door closing, an engine starting, etc. When you first held it, you unknowingly hit the button for the car engine sound. It made the noise and you opened your eyes wide in shock. For several days, you’d suck on the clicker (rather than the teething keys!) and it would emit a continuous string of sounds.

This month, you started weekly visits with Grandma and Grandpa. They are helping Mommy get some freelance writing done without distraction. They enjoy having you, and you really enjoy your time with them. I am so grateful for their help. Later in the day, I join you all for dinner and the weekly Carson “craft night.” In other news, we got a new car! We traded in one of our Honda Civics for a family-friendly Honda CRV. It’s much easier to get you in and out of the car, and we have more storage space, so we can actually put something else in the trunk with the stroller! And, lastly, we found out that Auntie Lindsey and Uncle Brett are expecting a girl. Yay! I hope you two will be best buds.

Month 7 Stats
Clothes: 9 months, 9–12 months
Diapers: Size 3
Food: 4–5 six- or seven-ounce bottles per day. Has tried oat cereal, peas, carrots, apples, prunes, bananas, and a Thanksgiving blend of butternut squash and turkey.
Likes: Waving, sucking on tags, rollie owl, Christmas lights.
Dislikes: Apples.

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Dear Denali: Six Months

by LeeAnne on November 23, 2014


You are on a roll! Literally. For a several weeks, you’ve been playing on your play mat in the doorway of the bathroom while I shower. One recent morning, I noticed you rolling off the mat and out of my view. I kept opening the shower door to check on you, and by the time I was finished, you were under my bed, stopped by the bins of wrapping paper underneath. Later that night, you rolled across the living room until you ran into the coffee table. And several days after that, you began getting frustrated by roadblocks, starting to fuss and cry when your roll was cut short. You are a woman on a mission. (And you now go in the Pack-and-Play when I shower.)

Mommy and Daddy bought you a jumper that hangs in a doorway. The first time in it, you were hesitant and a little afraid. At one point, you turned away from us and immediately started wailing. You thought we left you in the contraption! Since then, you seem to like it a little bit more but not a lot. You will push off with your toes and go slowly in a circle, but you haven’t done any jumping yet. Something else you’re not sure about: bubbles. I’ve been putting you in your Bumbo seat and blowing bubbles up above your head so they fall gently around you. You just stare at them. No smiles for the bubbles. Rattles, however, you totally get. You love rattles these days. You’ve started knocking on the wall at your changing table, with a little fist and everything. And you often flip over and grab at the clothes and other things on the changing table while I’m trying to change your diaper. So squirmy! Your fine motor skills have improved drastically. You will use your pointer finger and thumb to pinch at the antenna on your ladybug rattle. You looooove peek-a-boo.

You can basically feed yourself now. I sit you on my lap, with your back to me and looking out. You hold your bottle yourself, with just an occasional nudge from me (especially when the cats enter the room; you whip around to look at them and lose the bottle and your balance). Speaking of food… You tried solids for the first time at 5 ½ months! I put you in the Bumbo seat on a dining room chair. You wore one of the bibs that your Great Auntie Nette embroidered for you, and used an engraved keepsake spoon I bought you. We started with rice cereal. You were eager and curious about it all, but the moment the cereal hit your lips, you grimaced. You sucked the cereal off your lips but then grimaced again for the second and subsequent spoon deliveries. You seem to like the food but not the sensation of a spoon in your mouth. But you never cried or fussed. You ate maybe a teaspoon, haha. Since then, we’ve tried squash, green beans, and sweet potatoes. Your reaction to sweet potatoes was hilarious: open-mouthed shock and awe. You now have a real high chair (it’s dark wood with a woodland creatures seat cushion) and you eagerly open your mouth in anticipation of the spoon, although your tongue still sometimes gets in the way. You’re not sure what to do with it.

These days, you’re sitting up well enough to take baths in the kitchen sink without the Puj tub insert. You love to splash the water. By the end, I am drenched and the kitchen is flooded. Your hair is long enough now for bed head, LOL. It is a lot easier to cut your fingernails these days. You are really curious about what I’m doing and hold still. Your toenails on the other hand… harder.

I was watching The Voice one evening, with you playing on the floor, and you started “singing along.” You tried to out-volume the performers with very loud screaming and screetching. It was hilarious. Sometimes, when driving around in my car, it sounds like I have a flock of parrots in the backseat. You’re definitely in a squawking stage. You make it hard to listen to podcasts! And then one night, while all three of us were in the car, you were babbling away in the backseat and said “Yeah!” as clear as day. Your dad and I thought that was very cool. First word? LOL.

Lately, you’ve been sucking in your bottom lip a lot. It gives you a turtle-like face. Such a crack up. And you’ve had red bags under your eyes lately, which concerns me a little. My research suggests it’s probably just that you’re tired, or you could have allergies. You DO sneeze a lot. I hope you’re not allergic to cats!

You’re suddenly afraid of loud noises. My hairdryer, which didn’t used to bother you, now makes you cry. I have to talk you through it (“It’s OK!”) and turn it your way occasionally, so you can feel the air. This keeps you calm-ish. In public restrooms, when someone flushes a toilet, you get the most frightened look on your face. Your lip starts quivering and then you start wailing with real flowing tears. It’s the saddest little thing. Otherwise, you are so patient. Everyone tells me this. You are happy and calm, can go with the flow, and can be distracted from grumpiness pretty easily. I am grateful for this.

Some firsts this month… You had your first night away from Mommy and Daddy, when we celebrated our anniversary in San Francisco. You stayed with Grandma and Grandpa and had a great time. You slept through the night in their grandkids room, no problem. You went on a walk and had your first turn on the swings at the park. Grandma sent me the video, and it’s so cute. You are so series when it comes to new experiences. You had your first Halloween! Mommy and Daddy took you to a pumpkin patch, but you were not impressed. You wouldn’t smile. But you did like the goats in the petting zoo and the horses pulling the horse-drawn carriage. I made you a Halloween costume with a onesie and felt to look like you were a piece of sushi, and we went to Grandma and Grandpa’s. You trick-or-treated there and at one house across the street. Thanks for the candy – it was good. ;)

I’ll end with a funny story. We took family photos for Christmas cards in mid-November. I had purchased an outfit for you months ago, when the holiday stuff first hit stores. Everything fit fine except the shoes; they were too big. I had to make some adjustments to your outfit anyway, though, to coordinate with Mommy’s and Daddy’s. So I swapped out your sparkling white sweater for a silver one, and your too-big silver glitter Mary Janes for black patent-leather ones. One thing I almost forgot until I was buying your shoes was tights! Of course! Little girls wear tights with their dresses. I was just going to put your shoes on bare legs. What a noob mom move. I happened to see white tights with little silver glitter bows at the register at Carter’s, and they turned out perfect! So you ended up wearing only original piece: The maroon lace dress with satin ribbon. Sigh…

Month 6 Stats
Weight: 17 pounds, 11 ounces (78th percentile)
Height: 26.75 inches (82nd percentile)
Clothes: 6–9 months, 9 months
Diapers: Size 3
Food: 5 six- or seven-ounce bottles per day. Has tried rice cereal, squash, green beans, and sweet potatoes
Likes: Peek-a-boo, rattles, solid food, splashing bath water
Dislikes: Doorway jumper, bubbles, me wiping her face after eating

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by LeeAnne on November 22, 2014

Things I accomplished this week:

  • Researched and wrote the January 2015 events calendar for Diablo magazine.
  • Wrote this week’s Top Tickets events blog for Diablo magazine.
  • Composed and scheduled tweets for every event featured in Top Tickets.
  • Fact-checked four stories for United Airlines’ Rhapsody magazine.
  • Proofread two departments and two features for Diablo Weddings.
  • Reacquainted myself with the AP Style Guide, for a new proofreading gig.
  • Brainstormed a marketing campaign for a friend’s new business.

I also made a tiny bit of progress on Denali’s scrapbook (I rearranged the photos and pages into my new plan), met up with my parents for dinner and my sister-in-law for lunch, bought a few Christmas gifts online, assembled a high chair, and took family holiday photos (including shopping for photo attire for all three of us). And, you know, kept my six-month-old alive, fed, engaged, and loved.

Admittedly, I didn’t sleep so much. I also didn’t really clean or cook. But, it can be done. I can be a work-at-home mom, who is a freelance writer and editor. I wouldn’t have believed this five months ago.

That said, I can’t sustain this pace for too many more weeks. (I feel a little like my college self, who spent most years juggling a full class load, paid editorial positions on the newspaper and yearbook staffs, a part-time job in the admissions office, and having fun with friends. Limited free time drives me to make the most of it. But I don’t have that 19-year-old body—or energy—anymore.) My amazing mom is going to help me out by watching Denali during the day on Mondays, so I can do some hyper-focused work. I am so very grateful.

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